这世界的确没有白吃的午餐。。
来到了大都市 ，马来西亚首都深造一年了 ，果然看到了很多过去所看不到的东西.
当今 ，世界各地的生活方式很简单的 , 就是 ：欠钱还钱 （一路来都风雨不改的） ； 相同的 ， 欠人情 ，也得双倍奉还给人家 . 现在这么不乐观的世界经济情况 ，当然是要这样子咯不然 ，相混口饭吃 ，都成问题 .
长辈所给的劝告 ，指导 ，我都听进去了 . 无可否认的 ，人 ，还是人 ; 当然很自然的 ，有些会听，有些会做.那些长辈的金玉良言 ，谁能一百分无缺的实行呢 ？很简单答案就是 ，没有！！！！
因为人本来就是不完美的.我们的神 ，爱我们 ; 也就是要我们从这些艰难的时刻 ，学习 ，成长 .
说回主题 ，世界没有白吃的午餐！！我本人 ，曾经遇过很多这样的人.我承认我不完美 ，也承认人生还有很多事要学 ; 但， 我可以保证 :
我 ，沈俊杰绝对不会 ，像那些“不要脸”的人一样脸皮厚着 ，靠朋友的钱维生没钱还要学人家炫耀没钱，却要学有钱人
我是要活者一天 , 就一天不会变成这些社会的人渣 ，败类 !!!
这就是我对我自己的承诺…..=)
I’ve been studying out here in Kuala Lumpur , Malaysia’s capital city , for one year . And indeed , along this road which is still long and winding , I have had the oppurtunity , to open my eyes to things that I have not been lucky or perhaps given the chance to see .
In the cold , bloody world today , it is survival of the fittest . And , the survival call is : Pay What you Owe , be it Money , or favor . This saying has actually long been practised , many many years ago . But it has never been more true right now , then it is then . It is a choice that many would not like to take , but , unfortunately , it has applied itself to every man in this earth . In the crunching economy of today , this is the call that one has to make . Because if one doesn’t pull the trigger and make the right calls , then it would present a huge problem , resulting in that individual failing in life , failing to support his family , failing to see his kids through to college ….
What our elders told us , we would , of course listen well , and apply it to our lives . But , undeniable fact , that we are still human , meaning that we are imperfect , and being imperfect , there are always things that we would do , and wouldn’t do , regardless of its ethicality . And we ask when would we fully utilise our elders’ teachings in life ?
The simple answer is NEVER !!!!!
Because humans ARE imperfect . As God creates us this way ,he does so with His love . He wants us to conquer our worst fear and worst enemies , in this time of need , so that we may learn ..learn , as we mature alongside it .
I admit I am not perfect , and also , that I still have a lot more to learn…
My promise to myself that I would NEVER stoop to the lowest of all levels of tricks and scams , I would NOT live on my friend’s money , I would not show-off what I do not have …
Until a day that the last breath of air leaves my body , then until that day , shall my promise apply !
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